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Wife has no regrets giving husband gift of life

Article date: 01 Feb 2009
By Lee Yuk Peng
 

KUALA LUMPUR,MALAYSIA: For How Kok Leong, the ultimate gesture of love was one he experienced a year ago, when his wife gave him a special gift - one of her kidneys.

How, 39, was suffering from kidney failure and had to go for regular dialysis treatment until his wife Ngui Fui Lang, 30, donated her right kidney to replace his failing left organ.

"I did not expect her to give me one of her kidneys. Her donation is even better than striking a lottery!" said How, who stopped driving lorries and does odd jobs now.

Ngui gave her husband the "gift" last February, on the sixth day of Chinese New Year, in an operation carried out at Universiti Malaya Medical Centre (UMMC).

Despite being admonished by her father, she has never regretted giving her kidney to her husband.

"I do not sense any difference after the transplant," said Ngui.

"I was not scared. I did not want to see my husband suffer."

"He went through dialysis three times a week and he was so weak then," said Ngui, who married How, 39, in February 2005 after a one-month courtship.

She had earlier spent six months undergoing tests, counselling, and repeated inquiries about her decision.

Ngui, from Pontianak, Indonesia, came from a poor family.

She worked as a seamstress at the age of 14.

Five years ago, she came to Malaysia to seek a life partner.

Through a matchmaker, she met and married How.

She gave him another special gift in October 2006 when their baby boy, Jun Shen, was born.

However, three months after the baby was born, How, a diabetic, suffered kidney failure and started dialysis treatment.

He started to raise money for a transplant in China but a visit to UMMC offered a solution when a nurse told him that spousal transplant was possible and could be performed at the centre.

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